The search

Disclaimer: This is not directed at any one person, so please understand humor is always my goal. Thank-you  :)
The search for what to say when nothing is there.  It is the overwhelming feeling I have when someone weighing 125 lbs gives me dieting tips as they are trying to lose that 5lbs they put on over the holidays.  Now I know I sound judgmental but I can put on 5lbs by looking at a piece of cake.  So I search for the way of saying I know your life is hard because you can not wear that top with those jeans anymore.  I get it is hard to eat what ever you want and only gain .5lbs. How dare I think you are being condescending when you look at me like a prize steer being weighed in for slaughter.  And just to clarify for all the doctors I have visited "I do know that I am overweight!".  I am fat not stupid thanks for the insight.