I do

This November my wife Mega and I will celebrate 10 years of marriage.  She is my best friend most days ( I am not the easiest person to deal with). When I said "I do" I intended to keep that true so I had to change my way of thinking towards her and others. I had to adjust my words and actions to that of a married man who was in a committed relationship. One rule we but into effect early was we never threaten to leave each other and never, ever, ever talk about divorce. Now I can't speak for her but I am stupid and hurtful when I am mad so these simple rules have kept me out of trouble over the years. It really was "I do" not "I will try". Commitment will allow change to happen. If you jump ship when things get rough you may be swallowed up by a whale like Jonah in the bible. Life is not easy and sometimes it is down right hard but you decide how to handle it. Your words reflect your heart and commitment towards your goal. I have been on this weight loss journey for a few months now but last night I realized I have to stop trying to eat right and just do it. I will not talk about being fat but instead I will focus on what life will be like when the weight is gone. Focus on the person you are becoming not the person you were. Vision stirs up passion and passion breeds work and work brings change. Catch the vision for your life and push to your future, you are worth it........